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Esek
 
 
What would cause a young man to compete and contend with his uncle over the expanse of the land laid out before them?
What would cause a nation of people to stop up a Hebrew's wells that he rightfully inherited from his father?
What would cause a prosperous man to withhold his goods from those who were a blessing unto him?
The answer is Strife!
 
What exactly is strife?
 
There are two basic ideas behind this term - Selfish Ambition and Contentiousness.
It involves the desire for personal gain...the desire to put oneself forward - being selfish or self-promoting...as well as the contest for superiority or advantage over others.
It also entails conflict, dissension, friction, disagreement, and angry contention.
 
What causes such strife among us in the first place?
 
T.S. Eliot said - "Most of the trouble in the world is caused by people wanting to be important."
A. W. Tozer also said - "The itch to have preeminence is one disease for which no natural cure has ever been found."
 
The Scriptures delineate eight basic causes for strife -
 
#1 Hatred
 
Proverbs 10:12 says - "Hatred stirreth up strifes..."
                                                                                
#2 Pride
 
Proverbs 13:10 says - "Only by pride cometh contention..."
Proverbs 28:25 adds - "He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife..."
                                                                                
#3 Wrath
 
Proverbs 15:18 says - "A wrathful man stirreth up strife..." 
Proverbs 30:33
says - "Surely the churning of milk bringeth forth butter, and the wringing of the nose bringeth forth blood: so the forcing of wrath bringeth forth strife." 
Proverbs 29:22
adds - "An angry man stirreth up strife..."
                                                                                
#4 Forwardness
 
Proverbs 16:28 says - "A froward man soweth strife..." 
                                                                            
#5 A Contentious Disposition
 
Proverbs 26:21 says - "As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife." 
                                                                          
#6 Talebearing
 
Proverbs 26:20 says - "Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth."
 
#7 Scorning
 
Proverbs 22:10 says - "Cast out the scorner, and contention shall go out; yea, strife and reproach shall cease." 
                                                                                
#8 Lusts
 
James 4:1 says - "From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?"
 
In summary - hatred...he that is of a proud and greedy heart...and a wrathful, angry, or hot-tempered man - are said to stir up strife.
 
What does it mean - "to stir up strife"?
 
The following people or conditions awake or rouse to action controversy, disputes, quarrels, and contentions.
 
A froward or dishonest man sows strife wherever he goes. In other words, like a farmer who sows seeds for the harvest, this deceitful man is said to cast, throw, or shoot out contention everywhere by his words and crafty ways.
 
The quarrelsome person and the slanderer love to keep the fires of contention burning. They kindle or inflame disputes by adding words which serve as coals added to burning coals or wood added to an already burning fire.
 
The mocker or frivolous person also agitates controversy. Cast him out of your company and remarkably all strife will stop.
 
Lastly, lusts and the inability to fulfill these lusts cause people to be miserable, frustrated, and contentious - especially with those who stand in their way of finding fulfillment.
 
Did you ever notice in the Scriptures how envying and strife are oftentimes listed side by side?
 
For instance, Philippians 1:15 tells us - "Some indeed preach Christ even of envy and strife..."
Romans 13:13 tells us - "Let us walk honestly, as in the day...not in strife and envying."
1 Corinthians 3:3 says - "For ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife..."
2 Corinthians 12:20 adds - "For I fear, lest, when I come, I shall not find you such as I would... lest there be...envyings...strifes..."
 
Then we come to the Book of James where we find the same coupling of words - "But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts...For where envying and strife is..."(James 3:14,16).
 
In his Commentary on these particular verses in the Book of James, Matthew Henry states that envying usually comes first and excites strife.
 
Dakes' Annotated Bible says that envy deals more with the state of the soul and is reflected in the thought life, whereas strife is manifested oftentimes through our words to others.
 
Since our thoughts do produce our words, it does make sense to say that a jealous thought many times activates contentious and argumentative words. These, in turn, produce "confusion and every evil work"(James 3:16). In other words, envy and strife set the stage for such tumult, unquietness, disunion, division, and instability as well as anything and everything wicked under the shining sun to be manifested.
 
That is why the Apostle James said to those who have envy and strife in their hearts - "glory not"(James 3:14). Don't boast or gloat over it!
 
Proverbs 17:19 tells us that a man or a woman who loves strife actually loves and delights in sin.
Proverbs 20:3 relates that - "It is an honor for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling." The Scripture calls everyone a "fool" who starts arguments and calls the man honorable who gladly avoids them.
 
Remember the three questions asked at the beginning of this message?
 
Who was the nephew contending with his uncle over land? It was Lot.
Genesis 13:7 tells us - "And there was a strife between the herdmen of Abram's cattle and the herdmen of Lot's cattle..."
 
Lot was filled with Selfish Ambition. This was evidenced by his choice of "all the plain of Jordan..." which was "well watered every where"(Genesis 13:10). He never thought to share this "well watered" land with his uncle Abram.
 
Abram, on the other hand, was honorable in that he stopped the contention immediately - "...Let there be no strife, I pray thee, between me and thee...separate thyself, I pray thee, from me: if thou wilt take the left hand, then I will go to the right..."(Genesis 13:8-9).
 
Who was the Hebrew whose wells of inheritance were being stopped up by the enemy?
 
It was Isaac.
Genesis 26:12-22 relates the account of the Philistines' strivings with him.
Verse 14 describes him as being a very wealthy man - "...he had possession of flocks, and possession of herds, and great store of servants..." 
This would have been great, but the Scripture goes on to say that - "...the Philistines envied him"(Genesis 26:14).
Verse 20 tells us the outcome - "And the herdmen of Gerar did strive with Isaac's herdmen..."
 
Remember the Apostle James told us - "For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work"(James 3:16).
 
We find such evil in these Philistines as they ruthlessly stole well after well from Isaac and filled them with earth. Then when he found water in the valley of Gerar, they strove with him and said - "...The water is ours..."(Genesis 26:20). He "called the name of the well Esek..." meaning quarrel or contention - "... because they strove with him"(Genesis 26:20).
 
Nonetheless, he proved that he was an honorable man who ceases from strife. Every time the Philistines strove with him over a well that he himself dug, he went onward until God intervened and made room for him and gave him a well of his very own.
 
Isaac obeyed the Scriptural principle which says - "Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory...."(Philippians 2:3). God honored him by removing the enemy out of his way and giving him a well of his own. Proverbs 16:7 tells us - "When a man's ways please the LORD, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him."
 
Lastly, who was the prosperous man who rewarded evil for good to those who protected his sheepherders?
 
1 Samuel 25:25 identifies him - "...Nabal is his name, and folly is with him..."
He is a perfect example of - "...every fool will be meddling" - as mentioned in Proverbs 20:3.
Nabal agitated a controversy between himself and David. This contention was caused by his own pride... deceitful and scornful ways...as well as the lust, greed, and covetousness in his heart. He was most likely jealous of David. This jealousy led to strife, and the strife led to every evil work - the "love of money" which is "the root of all evil"(1 Timothy 6:10)..
His final outcome - "...the LORD smote Nabal, that he died"(1 Samuel 25:38).
 
D.L. Moody once said - "Strife is knocking another down; vainglory is setting oneself up."
 
Is it any wonder that the Apostle Paul said in Philippians 2:3"Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory..."
The Apostle James added - "But if ye have...strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth...For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work"  (James 3:14,16).
 
In closing, we quote a man by the name of William Secker who once said - "Where Self is the end of our actions, there Satan is rewarder of them."
 
We ask you -
 
What is the end of your actions and who is the rewarder of them?
 
May God Bless His Word.   
Connie
 

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