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What Is In My Heart Today?
 
 
"As water cannot rise above its source, so our words and deeds cannot rise above our heart." - Encyclopedia of Sermon Illustrations
 
 
 
In a discussion on what veritably defiles a man, the Lord Jesus - in Matthew 15:18-19 - taught us some very important principles - "But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart; and they defile the man. For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies." 
 
He pinpointed the source of all Sin to be the heart - "...out of the heart proceed..."
He taught that the mouth was the usual indicator of what actually was stored up in it - "But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart..."
 
Then He listed several things to look for which could possibly flow from a man's heart and bring defilement to his soul and life -  
 
"evil thoughts" - This includes all wicked thoughts, purposes, devices, and motives against others.  
"murders" - Another name for this is malice which is a deep-seated, almost unexplainable desire to see another suffer.
"adulteries, fornications" -  These unclean and wanton streams flow from a heart where lust reigns.
"thefts" - This includes the coveting as well as the carrying away of another's property without their knowledge or permission.
"false witness" - This is giving a wrong summation of the facts as well as concealing the actual truth in order to injure another's character or reputation.
"blasphemies" - This is speaking injuriously against God and His nature and ways as well as against another man's character.  
 
But what happens when a person lies in order to give a false impression or to present an entirely different picture than what is being seen by all? Then we have to fall upon another indicator besides the mouth to evaluate the true condition of another's heart.
 
As we look into the Book of Proverbs, we find an example of a defiled man as Jesus described in Matthew 15. However, at first glance, his words seem to be showing one kind of personality when another is involved - "For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he..." In this particular case, his words are deceitful and are not substantial evidence for what is really in his heart. His overall attitude tells it all. 
 
Proverbs 23 introduces us to this certain ruler who held a feast consisting of "dainty meats."  
Solomon warns us that - even though we may find ourselves in such a situation - we should not "be... desirous of his dainties: for they are deceitful meats."  
We are then told why in Proverbs 23:6 - this man has "an evil eye." In other words, he is envious, grudging, and hardhearted...sour, malignant, and given to lusts and passions.
 
At first, we would never know it for his words are very congenial - "...Eat and drink, saith he to thee..." However, this is all a facade for the Scripture says  - "...but his heart is not with thee."  
 
Here we have a man whose heart was defiled by "evil thoughts"(wicked devices against another), "murders"(malice and hatred for another), "covetousness"(lust and greed), and "false witness"  (lies, trickery, and deceit). We would never know it simply by his words. We know it by his overall attitude or heart. His spirit indicated that he was not really sincere in his show of friendship and congeniality.  
 
Let's think about what is being said here.
 
"But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart; and they defile the man."
"For out of the heart proceed..."
"For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he..."
"Eat and drink, saith he to thee: but his heart is not with thee."
 
From our study, we can conclude that the mouth is a good indicator of what lies within a man's heart.
If someone is overcome with bitterness, bitter words will spill out of his mouth from his heart.
If he is overtaken with a spirit of fear, then fearful words will issue forth. 
If lust has control of his heart, then filthy communication will pour out of his mouth.
On the other hand, if Faith has a hold of him, then the Word of God will be spoken.
 
However, in the case of someone who is defiled and lies continuously - using deceit and trickery to conceal the true state of his heart - then we can easily be deceived if we only go by his words. In this case, we must examine his entire spirit or attitude.
 
In Proverbs 23, with his words and compliments, the ruler pretended interest, concern, acceptance, love, and friendship for others, but his heart was not in it. In reality, it was all a front. He did not welcome his guests at all. He begrudged every morsel that they ate of his "dainty meats."
 
Have you ever been guilty of such dissimulation and pretense in friendships or relationships?
In order to appear kind and loving before others, did you pretend generosity and  acceptance when - in plain words - you were stingy, greedy, covetous, and self-centered?
Did you compliment others when you really did not mean it in your heart? You had an ulterior motive for doing so.
 
The Scriptures argue that we are very capable of speaking words to God and men that are empty and meaningless. We can give the Lord lip service all day long in order to appear spiritual or righteous before men, and yet be so far removed from Him. We can speak kindly and lovingly to others yet in our hearts  despise, scorn, ridicule, and look down upon them.
 
As Christians, we know that we must love others. God commanded us to do so. But, oftentimes what comes out of our hearts is a weak, phony, and ritualistic - "Love ya, Brother! Love ya, Sister!" - when in truth, we don't love them at all. We love ourselves too much to love another.
 
This ought not to be!
 
We can try to fool ourselves and others, but God - Who knows the hearts of all men - reads ours correctly.
 
R. B. Kuiper once said - "A man's heart is what he is."
George Swinnock said - "The heart is the metal of the bell, the tongue but the clapper."
 
We are to be a people who are pure in heart - not defiled and unclean.
 
What is pouring out of our hearts today in our everyday conversations?
Do we harbor "evil thoughts" which are filled with malice, impurity, obscenity, deceit, trickery, betrayal, or an exalted view of ourselves?
This is what we really are.
 
"As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he..."
 
Our thoughts reveal our true character to ourselves; our words, for the most part, reveal our true character to others.
 
The Word of God tells us that the Lord Jesus is soon to return for His Bride - the Church.
Ephesians 5:27 - Nevertheless, He is coming back for a Church which the Apostle Paul described as being - "...a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish."
 
That implies one which is pure and not defiled and that - 
...does not lie nor live a lie 
...does not say one thing and do another 
...is overwhelmingly filled with the Presence of Jesus so much so that the fruits of the Spirit are evident in her life daily.
 
That is the kind of Church Jesus wants for a Bride.
 
Will He marry you?  

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May God Bless His Word.
Connie
 

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